FunStick Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 1100 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 164 Topic Count: 165 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1038 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 622 Achievement Points: 9273 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 3 Birthday: 11/30/1980 Device: Android Share Posted January 26, 2013 Hello everyone, Its been a while since I have been online. Well I got some good news and some bad news. First, Wife and I came back last June into the US. Was doing the whole marriage life/ real life thing. There were times where it was great, and there were times where it was bad. I say that every marriage has its UPS and DOWNS. No perfect person or marriage can exsist. In January I sent my wife back to Pakistan to go visit her family. I figured why not. And come to find out from very very reliable sources, she is using me for a greencard and taking advantage of my good faith and heart. She was great at one time and Ms Perfect, but her family brainwashed her into something horrible and immoral. All of you have been my family since I started playing on the servers years ago. Been in this clan for a very long time, so I can share how I feel without anyone being an ass. It is heartbreaking to go through what I am going through right now. I truly did everything possible and went through the whole 9 yards to bring her back home to give her a proper good life. She was told to play me, to get her greencard, and then leave when she got everything situated. She wanted to get an education here so she can leave me and not be dependant on me. First, I was up for it, giving her what everyone should have a right to have. Gave her freedom and always constantly making sure we had money and were finanically good. She is trying to take that all away from me. Take what she thinks is hers but really isnt. This ladies and gentleman is a classic case that is known to everyone. Marraige from overseas to come to the US are unfavorable. But marriage from overseas for true love and a future is what matters. I don't frown on the idea of love, marriage, family, etc. but I do frown on people who marry for a greencard and for a hidden agenda. I cared alot about my wife until I found out she played me (which my heart was telling me she was fake a lot of times). I did a lot for her that no man would do without truly loving someone from his heart. Taking care of his family and being responsible. She didnt appreciate it, nor understood what it is like to be in my shoes. It hurts a lot that this had to happen to me. Its even more sad that this happens to a lot of people, Even women. My advise to all who have significant others over seas, is to be cautious. make sure that person is not in a country where its shitty, and to be sure to follow your instinct rather that your heart. In the end, what your heart wants will never matter to them. I want you all to pray that she will never be able to return to the United States. -Funstick Giggles, Noears711XI, Fire and 15 others 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
bobbarker Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 689 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 69 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 2030 Content Per Day: 0.38 Reputation: 1533 Achievement Points: 13317 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 9, 2023 Birthday: 07/22/1965 Device: iPhone Share Posted January 26, 2013 Damn Fun, sorry to hear that, some people are fucked up and have fucked up agendas and they care about noone but themselves, fuckers..... Giggles, JACKO:), Missionary and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Gatorgirl Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 2986 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 206 Topic Count: 384 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 6454 Content Per Day: 1.41 Reputation: 7140 Achievement Points: 50699 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 21 Joined: 11/13/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 13 Birthday: 12/19/1967 Device: iPhone Share Posted January 26, 2013 It breaks my heart that you had to go through all of that. Noone should have to deal with what you have. Unfortunately the morals in the world today are not what they used to be. Smile, at least you still have us!!! bobbarker, Bogleg, hxtr and 8 others 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
BurnnBright Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 22339 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 167 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 1715 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 679 Achievement Points: 12965 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 01/13/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: Wednesday at 12:16 AM Birthday: 03/20/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted January 26, 2013 Wow! I'm so sorry, Funstick. That's a terrible thing to do to a person. I hope you find peace and true love. Gatorgirl, Giggles, GhostfaceJim and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
TheCheeseyCrusader Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 88 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 248 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 3486 Content Per Day: 0.65 Reputation: 1846 Achievement Points: 22922 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 11/13/1991 Device: Android Share Posted January 26, 2013 (edited) Wow..all that shit you went through for scum? i feel sorry for you most of all :* want some cake? and of course i hope you find that blonde hair bay watch girl that really appricates you for who you are :*********** Edited January 26, 2013 by Cheese Fire, Giggles, Janey and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
FRENCHI Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 1729 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 105 Topic Count: 279 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 7521 Content Per Day: 1.50 Reputation: 3632 Achievement Points: 49200 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/23/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: September 16, 2021 Birthday: 12/26/1969 Share Posted January 26, 2013 mon pauvre ami . Que vous dire : sinon : de croire en vous et en votre chance d oublier le mal de pensé au bien qui ce trouve devant votre vie et d avancé. Le bonheur est devants vous ne regarder pas derriére Janey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Noears711XI Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 238 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 189 Topic Count: 75 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2162 Content Per Day: 0.40 Reputation: 1940 Achievement Points: 19609 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 8, 2022 Birthday: 07/09/1957 Share Posted January 26, 2013 Funstick my idiot brother you are a great guy. I can not imagine what you are going through but stick in there and have faith things will get better. Always remember there are three rule of thumbs in life "Shit happens and Shit going to happen " and tomorrow will always be a better day. I know it sounds cliche but they are so true. Best of luck in all your endeavors it will get better you are still young Janey, JACKO:), Giggles and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
FunStick Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 1100 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 164 Topic Count: 165 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1038 Content Per Day: 0.20 Reputation: 622 Achievement Points: 9273 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/07/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 3 Birthday: 11/30/1980 Device: Android Author Share Posted January 26, 2013 Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts and showing me love. You are all right. things will get better. I just gotta make sure I stay on track of my main goals in life. I can't wait till XI Fest! Gatorgirl and HellKid 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Janey Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 434 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 58 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 1289 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 1448 Achievement Points: 12930 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 8 Device: Windows Share Posted January 26, 2013 I'm so sorry to hear this after you fought her family to be able to marry her. you are a good man and you will find love. HellKid and BigPapaDean 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
KillerKitty Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 2905 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 72 Topic Count: 54 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2190 Content Per Day: 0.48 Reputation: 2545 Achievement Points: 18662 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 10/17/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 11, 2018 Birthday: 02/26/1977 Share Posted January 26, 2013 I am so sorry to hear that.... i hope u find the true love one day too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Boo Yaa Posted January 26, 2013 Member ID: 22349 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 2 Topic Count: 14 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 766 Content Per Day: 0.22 Reputation: 3 Achievement Points: 4612 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 5, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2013 That sucks, good luck getting through it and over it Funstick! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shamu Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 715 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 8 Topic Count: 418 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 2178 Content Per Day: 0.41 Reputation: 1183 Achievement Points: 16606 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 11/09/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 2, 2023 Birthday: 11/04/1943 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 (edited) I can have some understanding for you because a very dear family member endured a similar situation. Her husband remained married and with her as long as it was convenient. As soon as she was not needed for legal reasons he was gone. To make things worse he even told her she was only a tool to be used. I do not claim to know all the details but but can say this was on the Irish side of the family, my wife's relatives. So there needs to be concern for more than just the "poor" countries. It can happen anywhere for green cards or citizenship. It can be heartbreaking. Edited January 27, 2013 by Shamu HellKid, Unchileno and KaptCrunch 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boomer Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 2083 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 42 Topic Count: 172 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3554 Content Per Day: 0.73 Reputation: 4992 Achievement Points: 23761 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/31/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: May 14, 2014 Birthday: 10/20/1962 Share Posted January 27, 2013 let your heart mend brother, it'll be ok and we are here for you... real sorry to hear whats happened! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pharticus Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 1320 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 7 Topic Count: 37 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 611 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 357 Achievement Points: 4498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 04/10/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: August 10, 2020 Birthday: 01/14/1976 Share Posted January 27, 2013 So sorry Stick. It hurts being taken advantage by anyone, but especially from your spouse. Keep searching for someone that matches your moral standard. Best of luck. HellKid, Spartacus and KaptCrunch 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Spartacus Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 1387 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 30 Topic Count: 52 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2540 Content Per Day: 0.49 Reputation: 2485 Achievement Points: 19552 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/02/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 4 Birthday: 06/05/1968 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 A Despicable Human Being Some Can Be. I My Friend Got Lucky With My Present Wife From The Philippines.... A Soulmate Forever. We Just Had A Little Girl 6 Months Ago. Been There & Done That On The Visa & Everything Else That Goes With It. So I Can Honastly Say, You Are Living My Greatest Fear. If I Had Gotten Used By Her, It Would Have Been A Lifechanging Heartbreak For Sure. Don't Give Up On Happiness, My First Marriage Ended By Being Used By A Fellow American. Peace Be With You Brother, Remember You Tried To Help Another Soul Whom Took Advantage Of A Kind & Loving Heart.... KaptCrunch, Gatorgirl and HellKid 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
ChiefBSr Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 406 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 52 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 217 Content Per Day: 0.04 Reputation: 96 Achievement Points: 2127 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 09/16/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: December 14, 2023 Birthday: 02/21/1967 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 STICK ------- i am sorry to hear that this has happened to you... You my friend has gone through more than most people would ever put them selves and i know how much u did to just get your wife hear safe.. and alive even!!!! in my eyes you have nothing to be of ashamed and I am very proud to have met you and you have displayed the love that is totally honorable in every way.. Shame on her she will get her just deserts... she will pay for that choice for the rest of her life ... total ignorance is bliss i guess...wow hey and FUCK YOU bro HellKid 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
PigDog Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 222 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 88 Topic Count: 331 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3846 Content Per Day: 0.72 Reputation: 1626 Achievement Points: 25628 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 1 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 24 Birthday: 02/05/1968 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 Funstick, so sorry to hear about this. You are better off without her...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Unchileno Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 101 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 109 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.14 Content Count: 8133 Content Per Day: 1.51 Reputation: 6747 Achievement Points: 61498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 27 Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Share Posted January 27, 2013 Tears of blood she will cry one day for you..Karma is a hell of a bitch. Hold your head high man a good hearted woman is waiting for you..Sometimes the less you seek the more you find. Good luck man. Gatorgirl, Bogleg, HellKid and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
google Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 1270 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 149 Topic Count: 330 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3862 Content Per Day: 0.75 Reputation: 4543 Achievement Points: 34164 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 03/22/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: Monday at 01:00 PM Birthday: 04/12/1969 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 so sorry FunStick............... do not worry the sun will rise and your "street"M8 just patience and wisdom Noears711XI and Unchileno 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
JACKO:) Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 4474 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 25 Topic Count: 162 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1065 Content Per Day: 0.26 Reputation: 374 Achievement Points: 7622 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 3, 2014 Birthday: 09/30/1975 Share Posted January 27, 2013 Ah my fucking lovely FunStick, i'm so sorry to hear that! You are wonderful man. That sucks,lol!!! but: What doesn't not kill us makes us stronger. Good luck bud, i love you. Unchileno 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hxtr Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 220 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 147 Topic Count: 595 Topics Per Day: 0.11 Content Count: 16950 Content Per Day: 3.15 Reputation: 13538 Achievement Points: 129714 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 120 Joined: 09/04/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: October 26, 2023 Birthday: 04/05/1970 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 wow Funstick and you worked so hard to get her here to the states. I am very sorry you are going through this because you really had to jump through hoops to make it happen. I guess better find out now than later... when you have kids bring in lots more commitments and red tape. We are your family... thats for sure. I will be single for the rest of my life. If I need to shag something... i got a whole list of Idiots to choose from. Like Rugger... he's my favorite. Olive, Shamu, Gatorgirl and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unchileno Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 101 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 109 Topic Count: 764 Topics Per Day: 0.14 Content Count: 8133 Content Per Day: 1.51 Reputation: 6747 Achievement Points: 61498 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 27 Birthday: 01/23/1974 Device: iPhone Share Posted January 27, 2013 You are a great man with a HUGE heart..(not PENIS idiot) Lmao..So what I am saying here is..You will find the woman for you just be patient .. Go back to SINGLE player Stick..Is less stressful. FunStick and hxtr 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
Chris Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 65 Topic Count: 181 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 2293 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 1733 Achievement Points: 16624 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 4 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Share Posted January 27, 2013 I'm so sorry buddy. You went through a lot for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options... Awards
JACKO:) Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 4474 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 25 Topic Count: 162 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1065 Content Per Day: 0.26 Reputation: 374 Achievement Points: 7622 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/12 Status: Offline Last Seen: February 3, 2014 Birthday: 09/30/1975 Share Posted January 27, 2013 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PSYCOKILLER Posted January 27, 2013 Member ID: 2705 Group: **- Inactive Registered Users Followers: 11 Topic Count: 16 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 149 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 24 Achievement Points: 954 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/29/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 14, 2013 Birthday: 07/24/1961 Share Posted January 27, 2013 I feel pride for you that you were able to get above this situation , I believe that it has happened to most of us in one way or the other some greater than others , but even at any degree it still hurts and hurts in a way that only the inflicted knows , it prays on the most sensitive parts of our hearts, the part we use for love compassion and understanding and our unconditional hearts . the very same heart that you bared to trust , you are not alone my brother and this woman will never have a good life , stay strong FunStick 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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