StormCrow Posted February 6 Member ID: 480 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 75 Topic Count: 267 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2707 Content Per Day: 0.47 Reputation: 5095 Achievement Points: 46736 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 37 Joined: 09/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 03/11/1975 Device: Android Posted February 6 UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy Totty, Timmah!, WeednFeed and 21 others 16 8 Awards
SnullerDk Posted February 6 Member ID: 23800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 38 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 442 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 366 Achievement Points: 3855 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Device: Windows Posted February 6 so sorry to hear james StormCrow 1 Awards
YACCster Posted February 6 Member ID: 20683 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 140 Topic Count: 312 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3414 Content Per Day: 0.81 Reputation: 4133 Achievement Points: 45887 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 22 Joined: 12/12/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: 42 minutes ago Device: iPhone Posted February 6 Hey SC, so very sorry to hear of your Mom's situation. I know of how hard a decision you had to make, thoughts, prayers and wishing you and yours all the best my friend. StormCrow 1 Awards
Dot80 Posted February 6 Member ID: 2128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1574 Content Per Day: 0.30 Reputation: 1741 Achievement Points: 26593 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 8 Joined: 01/15/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 12 hours ago Birthday: 12/06/1955 Device: Windows Posted February 6 I am so sorry to hear this may God help your family though this rough time. StormCrow 1 Awards
BUDMAN Posted February 6 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 139 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7116 Content Per Day: 1.25 Reputation: 4657 Achievement Points: 60598 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 33 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Posted February 6 My heart is with you through these tough times... StormCrow 1 Awards
Ruggerxi Posted February 6 Member ID: 6 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 190 Topic Count: 2832 Topics Per Day: 0.49 Content Count: 12306 Content Per Day: 2.13 Reputation: 13644 Achievement Points: 107718 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 139 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 08/25/1976 Device: iPhone Posted February 6 Man so sorry you are going through this, sending hugs and love your way buddy. StormCrow 1 Awards
Smeggie Posted February 6 Member ID: 24118 Group: + COD4 Moderator Followers: 27 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1199 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 2265 Achievement Points: 11169 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 02/19/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 01/23/1962 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Brother this is absolutely crushing to read. I am glad everyone has had a chance to spend a little time with her and to let her know they love her. Your XI family is with you.... StormCrow 1 Awards
major-mark63 Posted February 6 Member ID: 23233 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 24 Topic Count: 51 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3099 Content Per Day: 0.87 Reputation: 2307 Achievement Points: 24608 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 09/10/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 9 hours ago Birthday: 08/11/1963 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Sorry to hear that now that is more important you had time to show your love ,, and now she cant rest without pain, suffering is optional. ive lost my mother 2 yrs ago she past way in her morning nap , but i wished i could tell her more that i loved her. since she didnt suffer i was ok with that. all my taughts with you and family .. Mark StormCrow 1 Awards
WeednFeed Posted February 6 Member ID: 433 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 42 Topic Count: 368 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2657 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 4258 Achievement Points: 26941 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 48 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 07:47 PM Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: iPhone Posted February 6 So sad but I believe you all did the right thing for mom! I went though this same thing with my dad. Sad but you all done her proud. The hospice care here in Canada is a wonderful blessing after so much suffering. major-mark63 and StormCrow 2 Awards
++ COD4 Admin Totty Posted February 6 Member ID: 30308 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 10 Topic Count: 39 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 914 Content Per Day: 0.84 Reputation: 933 Achievement Points: 8304 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 10 Joined: 07/02/22 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 08/28/1973 Device: Linux ++ COD4 Admin Posted February 6 So sorry Stormy. But rest assured that you are doing the right thing for her. StormCrow 1 Awards
Sourtap Posted February 6 Member ID: 24842 Group: ** Registered Users Followers: 12 Topic Count: 93 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1443 Content Per Day: 0.44 Reputation: 2257 Achievement Points: 14977 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 07/31/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 09/12/1989 Device: Windows Posted February 6 All the best to you and the family Stormcrow. Take comfort in the fact that soon your pops and moms are having a blast up there. StormCrow 1
TheCheeseyCrusader Posted February 6 Member ID: 88 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 249 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3515 Content Per Day: 0.61 Reputation: 1898 Achievement Points: 23147 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Birthday: 11/13/1991 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Jesus. Sorry to hear this mate. Thinking of you pal StormCrow 1 Awards
pitbullpete Posted February 6 Member ID: 155 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 215 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 997 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 768 Achievement Points: 7029 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 8 hours ago Birthday: 11/29/1967 Device: Android Posted February 6 Sorry about your mom it's best that she will not be in any pain, All my prayers for you and your family. StormCrow 1 Awards
baldie Posted February 6 Member ID: 607 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 76 Topic Count: 246 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3368 Content Per Day: 0.59 Reputation: 2728 Achievement Points: 34293 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 10/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 09/16/1966 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Really sorry to hear about your Mum. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family StormCrow 1 Awards
Chris Posted February 6 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 68 Topic Count: 183 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2371 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 1857 Achievement Points: 17339 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Posted February 6 12 hours ago, StormCrow said: UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy So sorry pal. I have no words. StormCrow 1 Awards
Icequeen Posted February 7 Member ID: 9264 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 91 Topic Count: 97 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6206 Content Per Day: 1.40 Reputation: 8207 Achievement Points: 52594 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 60 Joined: 05/13/13 Status: Online Last Seen: 1 minute ago Birthday: 07/13/1981 Device: Android Posted February 7 Stormy I am so sorry. I am sure that it is very hard to watch and feel that way. You have my prayers and thoughts. So so sorry. StormCrow 1 Awards
tsw 8.5 Posted February 7 Member ID: 906 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 144 Topic Count: 538 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 17587 Content Per Day: 3.11 Reputation: 42678 Achievement Points: 152265 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 692 Joined: 12/20/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 14 hours ago Birthday: 11/30/1960 Device: Windows Posted February 7 stay strong my friend .life is hell at times .so sorry you are having to deal with all this . StormCrow 1 Awards
Hoth Posted February 7 Member ID: 64 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1106 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 978 Achievement Points: 10460 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 10 hours ago Birthday: 12/09/1969 Device: Windows Posted February 7 My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. StormCrow 1 Awards
lTplkey336 Posted February 7 Member ID: 27768 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1087 Content Per Day: 0.49 Reputation: 1346 Achievement Points: 8918 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/18/19 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 15 Device: Windows Posted February 7 There are no words to make it better. I am so sorry to hear what has happenned. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, stay strong my friend, and remember all the good times. StormCrow 1 Awards
P!nk Posted February 7 Member ID: 79 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 228 Topic Count: 228 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3450 Content Per Day: 0.60 Reputation: 4062 Achievement Points: 30354 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 15 hours ago Birthday: 06/29/1977 Device: iPhone Posted February 7 I am so sorry to hear this, I wish you all the strength in these tough times. StormCrow 1 Awards
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