StormCrow Posted February 6 Member ID: 480 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 74 Topic Count: 266 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2701 Content Per Day: 0.47 Reputation: 5075 Achievement Points: 46666 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 37 Joined: 09/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 03/11/1975 Device: Windows Posted February 6 UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy major-mark63, baldie, P!nk and 21 others 16 8 Awards
SnullerDk Posted February 6 Member ID: 23800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 38 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 434 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 352 Achievement Points: 3778 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Device: Windows Posted February 6 so sorry to hear james StormCrow 1 Awards
YACCster Posted February 6 Member ID: 20683 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 138 Topic Count: 311 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3407 Content Per Day: 0.82 Reputation: 4127 Achievement Points: 45800 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 22 Joined: 12/12/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 hours ago Device: Macintosh Posted February 6 Hey SC, so very sorry to hear of your Mom's situation. I know of how hard a decision you had to make, thoughts, prayers and wishing you and yours all the best my friend. StormCrow 1 Awards
Dot80 Posted February 6 Member ID: 2128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1513 Content Per Day: 0.29 Reputation: 1659 Achievement Points: 26091 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 7 Joined: 01/15/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 12/06/1955 Device: Windows Posted February 6 I am so sorry to hear this may God help your family though this rough time. StormCrow 1 Awards
BUDMAN Posted February 6 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 152 Topic Count: 139 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7096 Content Per Day: 1.26 Reputation: 4633 Achievement Points: 60337 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 16 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Posted February 6 My heart is with you through these tough times... StormCrow 1 Awards
Ruggerxi Posted February 6 Member ID: 6 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 188 Topic Count: 2830 Topics Per Day: 0.49 Content Count: 12252 Content Per Day: 2.14 Reputation: 13527 Achievement Points: 107521 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 135 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 19 minutes ago Birthday: 08/25/1976 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Man so sorry you are going through this, sending hugs and love your way buddy. StormCrow 1 Awards
Smeggie Posted February 6 Member ID: 24118 Group: + COD4 Moderator Followers: 26 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1184 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 2240 Achievement Points: 11037 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 02/19/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 01/23/1962 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Brother this is absolutely crushing to read. I am glad everyone has had a chance to spend a little time with her and to let her know they love her. Your XI family is with you.... StormCrow 1 Awards
major-mark63 Posted February 6 Member ID: 23233 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 24 Topic Count: 51 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3044 Content Per Day: 0.87 Reputation: 2291 Achievement Points: 24025 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 09/10/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 08/11/1963 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Sorry to hear that now that is more important you had time to show your love ,, and now she cant rest without pain, suffering is optional. ive lost my mother 2 yrs ago she past way in her morning nap , but i wished i could tell her more that i loved her. since she didnt suffer i was ok with that. all my taughts with you and family .. Mark StormCrow 1 Awards
WeednFeed Posted February 6 Member ID: 433 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 42 Topic Count: 365 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2637 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 4218 Achievement Points: 26687 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 48 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 4 minutes ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Macintosh Posted February 6 So sad but I believe you all did the right thing for mom! I went though this same thing with my dad. Sad but you all done her proud. The hospice care here in Canada is a wonderful blessing after so much suffering. major-mark63 and StormCrow 2 Awards
++ COD4 Admin Totty Posted February 6 Member ID: 30308 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 10 Topic Count: 39 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 844 Content Per Day: 0.82 Reputation: 885 Achievement Points: 7776 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 10 Joined: 07/02/22 Status: Offline Last Seen: 9 hours ago Birthday: 08/28/1973 Device: Linux ++ COD4 Admin Posted February 6 So sorry Stormy. But rest assured that you are doing the right thing for her. StormCrow 1 Awards
Sourtap Posted February 6 Member ID: 24842 Group: ** Registered Users Followers: 12 Topic Count: 93 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1438 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 2249 Achievement Points: 14941 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 07/31/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 09/12/1989 Device: Windows Posted February 6 All the best to you and the family Stormcrow. Take comfort in the fact that soon your pops and moms are having a blast up there. StormCrow 1
TheCheeseyCrusader Posted February 6 Member ID: 88 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 249 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3510 Content Per Day: 0.61 Reputation: 1893 Achievement Points: 23116 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 20 hours ago Birthday: 11/13/1991 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Jesus. Sorry to hear this mate. Thinking of you pal StormCrow 1 Awards
pitbullpete Posted February 6 Member ID: 155 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 213 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 995 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 767 Achievement Points: 7014 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Monday at 01:28 PM Birthday: 11/29/1967 Device: Android Posted February 6 Sorry about your mom it's best that she will not be in any pain, All my prayers for you and your family. StormCrow 1 Awards
baldie Posted February 6 Member ID: 607 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 76 Topic Count: 246 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3367 Content Per Day: 0.59 Reputation: 2718 Achievement Points: 34252 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 12 Joined: 10/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:24 PM Birthday: 09/16/1966 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Really sorry to hear about your Mum. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family StormCrow 1 Awards
Chris Posted February 6 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 67 Topic Count: 182 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2364 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 1824 Achievement Points: 17226 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 5 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Posted February 6 12 hours ago, StormCrow said: UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy So sorry pal. I have no words. StormCrow 1 Awards
Icequeen Posted February 7 Member ID: 9264 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 90 Topic Count: 96 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6201 Content Per Day: 1.42 Reputation: 8199 Achievement Points: 52535 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 60 Joined: 05/13/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: Monday at 02:21 AM Birthday: 07/13/1981 Device: Android Posted February 7 Stormy I am so sorry. I am sure that it is very hard to watch and feel that way. You have my prayers and thoughts. So so sorry. StormCrow 1 Awards
tsw 8.5 Posted February 7 Member ID: 906 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 144 Topic Count: 537 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 17537 Content Per Day: 3.13 Reputation: 42642 Achievement Points: 151895 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 691 Joined: 12/20/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 5 hours ago Birthday: 11/30/1960 Device: Windows Posted February 7 stay strong my friend .life is hell at times .so sorry you are having to deal with all this . StormCrow 1 Awards
Hoth Posted February 7 Member ID: 64 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1098 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 966 Achievement Points: 10380 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 22 hours ago Birthday: 12/09/1969 Device: Windows Posted February 7 My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. StormCrow 1 Awards
lTplkey336 Posted February 7 Member ID: 27768 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1087 Content Per Day: 0.50 Reputation: 1346 Achievement Points: 8918 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/18/19 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 15 Device: Windows Posted February 7 There are no words to make it better. I am so sorry to hear what has happenned. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, stay strong my friend, and remember all the good times. StormCrow 1 Awards
P!nk Posted February 7 Member ID: 79 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 227 Topic Count: 228 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3443 Content Per Day: 0.60 Reputation: 4051 Achievement Points: 30283 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:15 PM Birthday: 06/29/1977 Device: iPhone Posted February 7 I am so sorry to hear this, I wish you all the strength in these tough times. StormCrow 1 Awards
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