StormCrow Posted February 6 Member ID: 480 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 75 Topic Count: 270 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2719 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 5149 Achievement Points: 46885 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 38 Joined: 09/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 42 minutes ago Birthday: 03/11/1975 Device: Android Posted February 6 UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy BUDMAN, WeednFeed, major-mark63 and 21 others 16 8 Awards
SnullerDk Posted February 6 Member ID: 23800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 39 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 448 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 370 Achievement Points: 3947 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Device: Windows Posted February 6 so sorry to hear james StormCrow 1 Awards
YACCster Posted February 6 Member ID: 20683 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 140 Topic Count: 312 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3428 Content Per Day: 0.79 Reputation: 4159 Achievement Points: 46029 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 22 Joined: 12/12/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Device: Macintosh Posted February 6 Hey SC, so very sorry to hear of your Mom's situation. I know of how hard a decision you had to make, thoughts, prayers and wishing you and yours all the best my friend. StormCrow 1 Awards
Dot80 Posted February 6 Member ID: 2128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1733 Content Per Day: 0.32 Reputation: 1905 Achievement Points: 27859 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 10 Joined: 01/15/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 12/06/1955 Device: Windows Posted February 6 I am so sorry to hear this may God help your family though this rough time. StormCrow 1 Awards
BUDMAN Posted February 6 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 154 Topic Count: 140 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7140 Content Per Day: 1.23 Reputation: 4693 Achievement Points: 61116 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 59 minutes ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Posted February 6 My heart is with you through these tough times... StormCrow 1 Awards
Ruggerxi Posted February 6 Member ID: 6 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 190 Topic Count: 2833 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 12435 Content Per Day: 2.11 Reputation: 13841 Achievement Points: 108048 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 143 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 08/25/1976 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Man so sorry you are going through this, sending hugs and love your way buddy. StormCrow 1 Awards
Smeggie Posted February 6 Member ID: 24118 Group: + COD4 Moderator Followers: 27 Topic Count: 63 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1236 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 2346 Achievement Points: 11491 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 15 Joined: 02/19/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 14 hours ago Birthday: 01/23/1962 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Brother this is absolutely crushing to read. I am glad everyone has had a chance to spend a little time with her and to let her know they love her. Your XI family is with you.... StormCrow 1 Awards
major-mark63 Posted February 6 Member ID: 23233 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 56 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3284 Content Per Day: 0.89 Reputation: 2444 Achievement Points: 26579 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 14 Joined: 09/10/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 3 hours ago Birthday: 08/11/1963 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Sorry to hear that now that is more important you had time to show your love ,, and now she cant rest without pain, suffering is optional. ive lost my mother 2 yrs ago she past way in her morning nap , but i wished i could tell her more that i loved her. since she didnt suffer i was ok with that. all my taughts with you and family .. Mark StormCrow 1 Awards
WeednFeed Posted February 6 Member ID: 433 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 43 Topic Count: 369 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2664 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 4272 Achievement Points: 27010 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 48 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Tuesday at 03:57 AM Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Macintosh Posted February 6 So sad but I believe you all did the right thing for mom! I went though this same thing with my dad. Sad but you all done her proud. The hospice care here in Canada is a wonderful blessing after so much suffering. StormCrow and major-mark63 2 Awards
++ COD4 Admin Totty Posted February 6 Member ID: 30308 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 10 Topic Count: 39 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 961 Content Per Day: 0.79 Reputation: 977 Achievement Points: 8680 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 10 Joined: 07/02/22 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 08/28/1973 Device: Android ++ COD4 Admin Posted February 6 So sorry Stormy. But rest assured that you are doing the right thing for her. StormCrow 1 Awards
Sourtap Posted February 6 Member ID: 24842 Group: ** Registered Users Followers: 12 Topic Count: 93 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1451 Content Per Day: 0.43 Reputation: 2261 Achievement Points: 15057 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 07/31/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 09/12/1989 Device: Windows Posted February 6 All the best to you and the family Stormcrow. Take comfort in the fact that soon your pops and moms are having a blast up there. StormCrow 1
TheCheeseyCrusader Posted February 6 Member ID: 88 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 250 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3522 Content Per Day: 0.60 Reputation: 1928 Achievement Points: 23228 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 22 hours ago Birthday: 11/13/1991 Device: Android Posted February 6 Jesus. Sorry to hear this mate. Thinking of you pal StormCrow 1 Awards
pitbullpete Posted February 6 Member ID: 155 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 216 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 997 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 768 Achievement Points: 7031 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Sunday at 11:32 PM Birthday: 11/29/1967 Device: Android Posted February 6 Sorry about your mom it's best that she will not be in any pain, All my prayers for you and your family. StormCrow 1 Awards
baldie Posted February 6 Member ID: 607 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 76 Topic Count: 246 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3373 Content Per Day: 0.58 Reputation: 2739 Achievement Points: 34397 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 10/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Wednesday at 05:34 PM Birthday: 09/16/1966 Device: Windows Posted February 6 Really sorry to hear about your Mum. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family StormCrow 1 Awards
Chris Posted February 6 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 68 Topic Count: 183 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2385 Content Per Day: 0.42 Reputation: 1865 Achievement Points: 17449 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Posted February 6 12 hours ago, StormCrow said: UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy So sorry pal. I have no words. StormCrow 1 Awards
Icequeen Posted February 7 Member ID: 9264 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 91 Topic Count: 97 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6241 Content Per Day: 1.37 Reputation: 8238 Achievement Points: 52882 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 60 Joined: 05/13/13 Status: Online Last Seen: 8 minutes ago Birthday: 07/13/1981 Device: Android Posted February 7 Stormy I am so sorry. I am sure that it is very hard to watch and feel that way. You have my prayers and thoughts. So so sorry. StormCrow 1 Awards
tsw 8.5 Posted February 7 Member ID: 906 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 144 Topic Count: 543 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 17754 Content Per Day: 3.06 Reputation: 42924 Achievement Points: 153539 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 696 Joined: 12/20/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 11:20 AM Birthday: 11/30/1960 Device: Windows Posted February 7 stay strong my friend .life is hell at times .so sorry you are having to deal with all this . StormCrow 1 Awards
Hoth Posted February 7 Member ID: 64 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1118 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 989 Achievement Points: 10628 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Online Last Seen: 6 minutes ago Birthday: 12/09/1969 Device: Windows Posted February 7 My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. StormCrow 1 Awards
lTplkey336 Posted February 7 Member ID: 27768 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1087 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 1346 Achievement Points: 8918 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/18/19 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 15 Device: Windows Posted February 7 There are no words to make it better. I am so sorry to hear what has happenned. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, stay strong my friend, and remember all the good times. StormCrow 1 Awards
P!nk Posted February 7 Member ID: 79 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 230 Topic Count: 228 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3454 Content Per Day: 0.59 Reputation: 4065 Achievement Points: 30420 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 06/29/1977 Device: Windows Posted February 7 I am so sorry to hear this, I wish you all the strength in these tough times. StormCrow 1 Awards
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