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to inform you that my wife of almost 32 years passed away on April 22nd after our long battle with lung cancer. She was laid to rest this past Saturday, April 26th. She was originally diagnosed in 2017, and in August that year had her right lung's upper lobe removed. She was good after that surgery for over four years, and in fact returned to work for a time and attended two XI Fest - the one in Niagara Falls, five or six weeks after her surgery in 2017 and the Fest in South Carolina in 2019. In 2019, Wildthing even arranged a birthday cake for her and we celebrated, since the S. C. Fest was during her birthday weekend! She also attended the Gatlinburg Fest in 2016 (her favorite one, though she loved them all)! She loved to travel, so always on board for the Fest. But ultimately, the Chemo and Radiation was not working, and you can take only so much of both. We knew it was coming, and she was on full time oxygen and on a lot of pain medications and last six months, but her passing has been difficult nonetheless. Our two sons are still at home with me, so we are staying busy and are adjusting to living without our lady in the house. 😢

https://www.tctimes.com/news/obituaries/debra-ann-brumar/article_a0f57aeb-b755-4fa1-b97c-f19cd2efb46b.html

First two pics, Glenwood Springs, Colorado 2013; family photo Florida 2014; Balcony pic, Gatlinburg XI Fest 2016 and last is Niagara Falls 2017:

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Posted (edited)

@LtLaszlo I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending positive thoughts your way.

Fuck cancer for taking your beautiful bride and your kids mother away from you.

 

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15 minutes ago, Smeggie said:

 

Fuck cancer!!

 

Thoughts your way...



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 Sorry to hear this.  Sending players your way.



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So sorry to hear Lazlo.  We love you brother !!!



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I'm so sorry Laszlo, My thoughts and prayer are with you and your boys 😥



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So sorry to hear of your loss - been there and know it hurts - stay strong for your family - thoughts and prayers to you and the family -



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So sad so sorry!Please accept my deepest sympathies.

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Oh Laz, I am saddened to hear the loss of your wife Deb.

I don’t know what to say that would give you peace during this time my friend. I hope you find strength and realize that loving her for the years you shared is a life well worth living.

You and your boys are in my thoughts my friend.

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Sorry for your loss , to young to leave, all my condolenace for you and your family..

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Posted

Sorry to hear that friend.



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So sorry for your loss bro, was a pleasure meeting you both in Niagara. Thoughts are with you and yours



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I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers for you and your family.



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Condolences to your family. Grateful we got to meet you and her in South Carolina. As we all get older it is important to just take an extra moment of appreciation for those around us and how fragile our lives and relationships with loved ones truly are. God Bless.

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So sorry and condolences to you and family. Stay strong!!



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Laz sorry to hear of your loss , stay strong for your family,  prayers to you and the boys 



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I am so very sorry for your loss and grateful you had a good life together.



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That's very very sad news ,, I'm sorry to hear your wife has passed , our thoughts and prayers go out to you .....



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My condolences to you and your family Laszlo, I am sorry to hear of your wifes passing.  I don't know what I would do without my wife, I can only imagine the quandry and feelings that you are going through.  I pray for strength and peace for you and your family.

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Thank you all for the kind words and condolences. 



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So sorry to hear this Laz. She gave you two great sons and the life you had together. My condolences to you and the family.



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My condolences

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Deepest condolences for you and your family.


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