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Harry you're too damn mean to let something like this get you down. Do what you need to do, tell your cancer to go fuck itself and get on with the rest of your life.



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sorry to hear that harry.the wife  has been going through kemo .started in july.and just about done with that we hope.but wont know till test come back..breast cancer .and had 1 removed..now after all this and a flipped car  she flipped the car last week on the way home from kemo.she is fine the car is gone,and we still dont know where we are with this crap..it sucks ..and at the age of 52 ..with our only kid  just 12 it is hard to deal with i know .but your a hardass just like my wife ..and you both will do great with this ..life sucks some times ..we just have to be strong and fight through it..keep us up to date ,,



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Harry,we know for sure,here at XI,that you are not the type of guy who give up whithout a fight.Give the disease a hell of a fight !  and you will be whith us for many more years.

I sincerely whish you the best.



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Harry I am sorry to hear this. I wish you the best always you are truly a good guy. I hope you have more Great Days than bad days. I will pray for you and your family.



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Harry I am truly sorry to hear this , a man of your caliber , strength and dedication you will beat this.

 

 BUDMAN



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Harry you will win this ! you just tell that cancer I KILL YOU ! Prayers are will you Harry



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This new brought tears to my eyes.  You are a good friend, and have overcome challenging moments in your life, so this one is no different.  Stay strong my friend! be positive, and like LOM said... tell that Cancer to go FUCK itself.

 

You are in my prayers!



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Harry I know there is always hope! I am so saddened by the turn of events of you in your life! When my kidneys has dropped in their function I had all kinds of thoughts and most of them horrors, but that don't mean that things are screwed up as much as we may first believe! I did some treatment and it wasn't long and my kidneys were functioning again! I honestly do not know what to say or even where to begin but I will keep you in my heart and mind as I go about my days! May God bless you and your family!



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I am so sorry to hear this. I will keep you in my prayers and if u need an ear I am always around.



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I'm sorry to hear that Harry. Being in radiology, I have some background on your diagnosis.With a good mind frame and a solid treatment, you can beat this. Are they considering SCT Harry?

 

Yes Harry, Pete is right. You have a long way to go and the clue for success is never, ever,  losing hope, even for a minute. Best of lucks!!



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im so sorry to hear this horrible  news.be strong and kick its ass best you can.try to keep a good attitude and not get too depressed-this will help you deal with this better and extend your days  with us.wish you the best.



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Thats horrible news.. So sorry to hear.. I wish you much strength with the road ahead of you..



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This is terrible and frightening news. Once you are over the initial shock and dread, It is my hope that you can set your jaw and dive into this fight with more determination than any other battle you have experienced. My thoughts, and my prayers, are with you in this. I also am here anytime you need an ear, or anything else that I have to offer. Do not hesitate to call on me.



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As many others have mentioned STAY POSITIVE

Each day when you wake up ask yourself  .  .  . . what can I do today to make myself feel good  . . and then do it.

Just make sure when you lay your head down each night think about your good day, smile and say a prayer.

Repeat

God Speed to you



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Thinking of you. Praying for you.

Weed



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I'm sorry to hear this, I truly am. I will pray for you! A positive attitude goes a long way. That helped my Dad survive cancer. God Bless you!



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Posted

   Don't know as yet Pete - awaiting appointment with hematologist to go through another battery of tests including bone biopsies, but I did read that the cutoff for that is age 65 - I'm 67. Unless there's some medical reason for that, don't understand why there would be one.

   As you likely know, this is very rare: only about two percent of all cancers. Treatments all include chemo but otherwise vary depending on lots of factors. And it's unlike other cancers. The not-knowing as yet where I am in terms of stage, etc., is the worse part - that, and of course, getting your head around a diagnosis like that; and I'm not there yet.

 

Thanks!! 

 

 

I havent heard of a cut and to be honest, you are the perfect demograghic to get multiple myeloma. Stem Cell Treatment is an option, Chemo followed by Interferon is standard practice with great sucess. I have no doubt you will kick this. It will be hard and I know you have an awesome family and friends (including us) to support you my friend.. 



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Sorry to hear, Harry! Give that nasty C-word the good fight!



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Posted
Wow! What else can I say.

 

In all my years at XI I have seen members and friends time and again face horrific turns of events in their lives and in EVERY case, you great people of XI - members and non-members - wasted NO time offering prayers, advice, and expressions of support. But I am here to tell you that when the shoe's on the other foot, it's much different.

 

You can't imagine what it means to someone going through something like this to read these heart-felt responses. Unless you've been through it, it may be difficult to understand - and it's difficult for me, seldom at a loss for words, to even tell you - how much strength this gives, how it helps so very much in getting your head around what life has delivered, and how it allows you to more easily firm your resolve to do everything in your power to overcome it.

 

It's been two days since I got the news. I am fortunate that I have a very loving family to help me with this - not only my immediate family, but my extended family. And that is how I see you folks. 

 

Thank each and every one of you - beyond words - for being there for me. I will never forget it. It brings tears to these old eyes and I love you all.

 

I just feel so very, very fortunate to have friends like you!!! 



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Sorry to hear this Harry....stay positive man, we are all pulling for ya.



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damn harry so sorry to hear that hang in there 



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Sorry to hear this Harry, that is not your last fight. Stay positive Buddy.



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So sorry to hear your bad news Harry and i hope you beat

that horrible nasty C my thoughts are with you keep strong.



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Keep fighting and you are in my thoughts and prayers  Harry


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