StormCrow Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 480 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 75 Topic Count: 272 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2730 Content Per Day: 0.46 Reputation: 5203 Achievement Points: 47031 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 40 Joined: 09/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 03/11/1975 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy Totty, Cecilia, bds1961 and 21 others 16 8 Awards
SnullerDk Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 23800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 39 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 452 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 373 Achievement Points: 4004 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/15/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 so sorry to hear james StormCrow 1 Awards
YACCster Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 20683 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 140 Topic Count: 313 Topics Per Day: 0.07 Content Count: 3434 Content Per Day: 0.78 Reputation: 4163 Achievement Points: 46109 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 22 Joined: 12/12/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 04:43 PM Device: Macintosh Posted February 6, 2025 Hey SC, so very sorry to hear of your Mom's situation. I know of how hard a decision you had to make, thoughts, prayers and wishing you and yours all the best my friend. StormCrow 1 Awards
Dot80 Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 2128 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 17 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1844 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 2033 Achievement Points: 28766 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 10 Joined: 01/15/11 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 12/06/1955 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 I am so sorry to hear this may God help your family though this rough time. StormCrow 1 Awards
BUDMAN Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 800 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 154 Topic Count: 140 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7153 Content Per Day: 1.21 Reputation: 4713 Achievement Points: 61318 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 11/27/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 05/29/1957 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 My heart is with you through these tough times... StormCrow 1 Awards
Ruggerxi Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 6 Group: ++++ Senior Admin Followers: 190 Topic Count: 2833 Topics Per Day: 0.47 Content Count: 12508 Content Per Day: 2.09 Reputation: 13935 Achievement Points: 108189 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 144 Joined: 09/01/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 6 hours ago Birthday: 08/25/1976 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 Man so sorry you are going through this, sending hugs and love your way buddy. StormCrow 1 Awards
Smeggie Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 24118 Group: + COD4 Moderator Followers: 28 Topic Count: 64 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1255 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 2382 Achievement Points: 11678 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 15 Joined: 02/19/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 16 hours ago Birthday: 01/23/1962 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 Brother this is absolutely crushing to read. I am glad everyone has had a chance to spend a little time with her and to let her know they love her. Your XI family is with you.... StormCrow 1 Awards
major-mark63 Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 23233 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 26 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 3422 Content Per Day: 0.90 Reputation: 2535 Achievement Points: 27755 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 15 Joined: 09/10/15 Status: Offline Last Seen: Yesterday at 01:35 PM Birthday: 08/11/1963 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 Sorry to hear that now that is more important you had time to show your love ,, and now she cant rest without pain, suffering is optional. ive lost my mother 2 yrs ago she past way in her morning nap , but i wished i could tell her more that i loved her. since she didnt suffer i was ok with that. all my taughts with you and family .. Mark StormCrow 1 Awards
WeednFeed Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 433 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 43 Topic Count: 371 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 2681 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 4303 Achievement Points: 27166 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 49 Joined: 09/17/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 4 hours ago Birthday: 05/28/1957 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 So sad but I believe you all did the right thing for mom! I went though this same thing with my dad. Sad but you all done her proud. The hospice care here in Canada is a wonderful blessing after so much suffering. StormCrow and major-mark63 2 Awards
++ COD4 Admin Totty Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 30308 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 11 Topic Count: 40 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1025 Content Per Day: 0.79 Reputation: 1040 Achievement Points: 9198 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 10 Joined: 07/02/22 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 08/28/1973 Device: Linux ++ COD4 Admin Posted February 6, 2025 So sorry Stormy. But rest assured that you are doing the right thing for her. StormCrow 1 Awards
Sourtap Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 24842 Group: ** Registered Users Followers: 12 Topic Count: 94 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 1456 Content Per Day: 0.42 Reputation: 2268 Achievement Points: 15100 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 07/31/16 Status: Offline Last Seen: 2 hours ago Birthday: 09/12/1989 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 All the best to you and the family Stormcrow. Take comfort in the fact that soon your pops and moms are having a blast up there. StormCrow 1
TheCheeseyCrusader Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 88 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 32 Topic Count: 250 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3524 Content Per Day: 0.59 Reputation: 1930 Achievement Points: 23240 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 3 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 11/13/1991 Device: Android Posted February 6, 2025 Jesus. Sorry to hear this mate. Thinking of you pal StormCrow 1 Awards
pitbullpete Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 155 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 216 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 997 Content Per Day: 0.17 Reputation: 768 Achievement Points: 7031 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: Sunday at 05:01 PM Birthday: 11/29/1967 Device: Android Posted February 6, 2025 Sorry about your mom it's best that she will not be in any pain, All my prayers for you and your family. StormCrow 1 Awards
baldie Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 607 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 76 Topic Count: 248 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3379 Content Per Day: 0.57 Reputation: 2757 Achievement Points: 34488 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 13 Joined: 10/21/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 20 hours ago Birthday: 09/16/1966 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 Really sorry to hear about your Mum. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family StormCrow 1 Awards
Chris Posted February 6, 2025 Member ID: 1357 Group: ++ COD4 Admin Followers: 69 Topic Count: 184 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2392 Content Per Day: 0.42 Reputation: 1874 Achievement Points: 17512 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 6 Joined: 04/21/10 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 12 Birthday: 09/11/1972 Device: Windows Posted February 6, 2025 12 hours ago, StormCrow said: UPDATE We (my brother, sister and I) spoke with the Dr yesterday. Ma was in ALOT of pain but they couldnt give her pain meds due to damage to her kidneys and liver already. The Dr said there is no coming back from this, the blood clot is a ticking time bomb, and her organs are so far gone and she has gone septic inside. Me being the one who lives here had to make the "official decision" but we all know in reality it was MOMS decision and we were just her voice. But, we have stopped all treatments, by doing this the Drs are allowed to pump her full of pain meds because who the fuck cares about her kidneys and liver now, now is all about making her comfortable until Dad comes to collect her (Dad passed 3 years ago this month) So, she is heavily medicated and sleeping 99% of time now, everyone came yesterday to say their goodbyes and she was surrounded in love. She has no IV fluids going in and no food unless she asks and can herself, which is not going to happen with how medicated she now is. Now is the waiting game until Dad decides we have had our time snd its his time again Thank you so much everyone for your messages and those who have reached out. You are all amazing and ill eternally love you all! James/Stormy So sorry pal. I have no words. StormCrow 1 Awards
Icequeen Posted February 7, 2025 Member ID: 9264 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 91 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6320 Content Per Day: 1.36 Reputation: 8340 Achievement Points: 53493 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 62 Joined: 05/13/13 Status: Offline Last Seen: 21 minutes ago Birthday: 07/13/1981 Device: Android Posted February 7, 2025 Stormy I am so sorry. I am sure that it is very hard to watch and feel that way. You have my prayers and thoughts. So so sorry. StormCrow 1 Awards
tsw 8.5 Posted February 7, 2025 Member ID: 906 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 145 Topic Count: 548 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 17860 Content Per Day: 3.04 Reputation: 43061 Achievement Points: 154324 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 699 Joined: 12/20/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 1 hour ago Birthday: 11/30/1960 Device: Windows Posted February 7, 2025 stay strong my friend .life is hell at times .so sorry you are having to deal with all this . StormCrow 1 Awards
Hoth Posted February 7, 2025 Member ID: 64 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 40 Topic Count: 20 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1123 Content Per Day: 0.19 Reputation: 998 Achievement Points: 10705 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: January 14 Birthday: 12/09/1969 Device: Windows Posted February 7, 2025 My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. StormCrow 1 Awards
lTplkey336 Posted February 7, 2025 Member ID: 27768 Group: ***- Inactive Clan Members Followers: 11 Topic Count: 4 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 1087 Content Per Day: 0.45 Reputation: 1346 Achievement Points: 8918 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 2 Joined: 05/18/19 Status: Offline Last Seen: April 15, 2025 Device: Windows Posted February 7, 2025 There are no words to make it better. I am so sorry to hear what has happenned. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, stay strong my friend, and remember all the good times. StormCrow 1 Awards
P!nk Posted February 7, 2025 Member ID: 79 Group: *** Clan Members Followers: 231 Topic Count: 228 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3455 Content Per Day: 0.58 Reputation: 4065 Achievement Points: 30433 Solved Content: 0 Days Won: 9 Joined: 09/02/09 Status: Offline Last Seen: 23 hours ago Birthday: 06/29/1977 Device: Macintosh Posted February 7, 2025 I am so sorry to hear this, I wish you all the strength in these tough times. StormCrow 1 Awards
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